We took a roadtrip! This morning we left with Eveque Mel and the Bendixsens to go visit one of the far reaches of the Abidjan East Mission– Bondoukou. We have a branch there waiting for a new branch presidency to be called and organized. We were excited to see more of this beautiful country. The drive took us about 7.5 hours through a tropical paradise.
The country we drove through was green and lush with jungle so thick it’s impassable. We saw farms large and small. where land had been cleared. The undergrowth is dense. There are vines growing up and over trees. At times I thought this must be God’s own country, untouched by humans.
When we passed through village areas, we saw planted banana and plantain farms, cassava, rubber and cocoa farms, coconut palms and small vegetable plots tended by the locals. There are always people walking along the road. Many have gone to cut firewood and some are carrying goods to markets to sell. Everything is done by hand here. Women are the beasts of burden. I marvel at the loads they carry, often with babies on their backs and children at their sides.
Here are some of the roadside vendors we passed by.
Lumber is harvested as well, and we passed many huge loads like this one of stately trees felled.
These trees are HUGE.
Another interesting thing we saw were roadblocks from the election a few weeks ago. All in all, we counted 26 large trees that had been felled across the road to prevent people from going to vote in the Oct 31 election. It was just recently that these trees have been cut and cleared so the traffic can flow again. This road is the only main road to this northern area.
The last hour or two the road was paved only about half of the time and it was filled with washouts and potholes. It slowed us down considerably.
We finally arrived in Bandougou this afternoon and checked into a hotel we’d arranged for.
Here is some of the yard decor at the hotel.
Our comfortable room:
Then we went to the church for the interviews to begin. Pres Bendixsen and John and Pres. Sossou (who met us here) met with the priesthood leaders in this branch. Several months ago the acting Branch President moved away, so we were here to reorganize the Branch Presidency.
This morning we traveled to Toit Rouge with Pres & Sis Lewis for a Zone Conference there with the Toit Rouge and Niagon South Central Zones. We had a fantastic day with them and these wonderful missionaries.
They began with a song and prayer, then the motto and a spiritual thought, then they celebrated birthdays. Sis Lewis gave each a journal book. Then two missionaries gave three-minute talks (everyone came prepared to share something). After that, the Zone Leaders each taught their own zone about using Facebook effectively.
Then a pair of Sister Training Leaders led a discussion on what they learned during the recent lock down. There was some good sharing.
After that, the Assistants taught from Preach My Gospel on effective teaching ideas. Then we took a short break. After the break there was a slide show to music the office Elders put together of all the baptisms since the last ZCs. That was nice. The last slide said, “when one missionary baptizes, we all baptize.”
The Assistants continued with a discussion on how to improve teaching, including with some role plays.
Then Pres & Sis Lewis did their trainings. They were really good. Sis Lewis talked about Ordinances and Covenants. Many of these missionaries have only been to the temple one time, or not at all and most of them don’t have parents who are members or who have been to the temple.
She shared a video about covenants and then had a nice discussion. The missionaries had so many questions. It was nice to have a doctrinal discussion that was spirit-filled and inviting. We talked about how ordinances and covenants bind us to God and we renew those covenants when we take the sacrament.
Then Pres Lewis continued with a discussion about why we have ordinances and covenants. He showed a picture of cassava (manioc) and then attieke. Their faces lit up. He asked them how cassava is transformed into attieke. Is it easy? The Sisters said it takes 3 days to make. We read Mosiah 3:19–the natural man is an enemy to God UNLESS he yields to the enticing of the HG and putteth off the natural man, becoming a saint through the atonement of Christ. We talked about that process of becoming like God–how it’s a process that involves ordinances and covenants.
He also talked about the Priesthood and how women also have Priesthood power (and why). He said men and women make exactly the same covenants and participate in the same ordinances and then can receive the same blessings. It was a wonderful lesson and discussion.
He also talked about the temple and how even if you only have one opportunity to attend the temple in a life time, Heavenly Father will give you every blessing and fulfill every promise as if you were able to attend often.
At the end, he talked about this process of becoming and he invited them to repent and obey and come unto Christ by keeping his commandments. He said it’s not like keeping school rules or police rules. We keep commandments because we love Jesus Christ.
He invited them to have more meaningful personal sacrament meeting experiences, being more humble. He ended by asking them to consider “What lack I yet?” and he gave them a few minutes to think about that and take some personal notes. Jesus said, “come follow me. I am the way.”
There was a sweet spirit in the room.
Then he had 2 departing missionaries share their testimonies and then he invited us to share our testimonies. I told them about Pres Binene who had only been to the temple 2 times before he was called to be a Mission President. He had served as a District President and as a Stake President, having only attended the temple twice. I said, “he was a man of great faith and he had a strong Spirit.”
I said, “not all of you have been to the temple yet, and some of you have only been one time (if they went to the Accra MTC). Then I told them there can be other sacred places in their lives where they will learn and grow and make and keep covenants with God. I said, for me, Africa is one of those places. It’s where I served as a young missionary and where I lived and worked after that. It’s where I taught the Doctrine of Christ and practiced keeping my covenants. It’s where I made promises to God and practiced keeping them. It has become a sacred place to me because of the things I’ve done here, and now I am here again as a missionary. This is also a sacred place for them.
I thanked them for their examples to me of how to live and be obedient and sacrifice. I was able to say the things in my heart and it seemed to come out OK and they understood me. I could tell in their faces.
John shared his testimony too and thanked them for welcoming us into the West Mission these last 5 weeks. It’s been a blessing for us to be here.
After the closing song and prayer, we took a group photo, then they handed out boxed lunches of rice and chicken. The conference ended at about 1:30 and we were there until about 3:00. It was hot. The temp today said 85, feels like 95. We were all hot and sweaty. But it was good to be there. What an excellent conference. We’ll miss working with these West Mission missionaries.
People around the world had a special treat today–we got to listen to our beloved Prophet, President Russell M. Nelson. It was wonderful. What a gift to listen to a man of God in these troubled times. Our world is in chaos with COVID-19 raging and election drama here in Cote d’Ivoire and at home in America. This was a very welcome treat.
Following is the full text of President Nelson’s message:
During my 96 years of life, I have seen a great depression, a world war, the rise of terrorism, hunger and poverty throughout the world. I have also witnessed the advent of space travel, the Internet, medical advancements galore and countless other discoveries that delight me.
Prior to my ministry, I was a cardiovascular and thoracic surgeon, and spent many hours in operating rooms. As a surgical resident, I was one of the research team that developed the first heart-lung machine to be used in a human open-heart operation.Subsequently, I had the privilege of helping to save lives of hundreds of patients; and, sadly, I watched other patients die despite my best efforts.
As a man of science, and as a man of faith, the current worldwide pandemic has been of great concern to me. As a man of science, I appreciate the critical need to prevent the spread of infection. I also honor the devoted service of healthcare professionals and grieve for the many whose lives have been upended by COVID-19.
As a man of faith, however, I view the current pandemic as only one of many ills that plague our world, including hate, civil unrest, racism, violence, dishonesty and lack of civility.
Skilled scientists and researchers are laboring diligently to develop and distribute a vaccine against the coronavirus. But there is no medication or operation that can fix the many spiritual woes and maladies that we face.
There is, however, a remedy — one that may seem surprising — because it flies in the face of our natural intuitions. Nevertheless, its effects have been validated by scientists as well as men and women of faith.
I am referring to the healing power of gratitude.
The book of Psalms is filled with admonitions to express gratitude. Here are just three of them:
“It is a good thing to give thanks unto the Lord.” (Psalms 92:1)
“O give thanks unto the Lord; for he is good.” (Psalms 136:1)
“Come before his presence with thanksgiving.” (Psalms 95:2)
Jesus Christ frequently expressed gratitude. Before raising Lazarus from the dead, before miraculously multiplying loaves and fishes, and before passing the cup to His disciples at the Last Supper, the Savior prayed and gave thanks to God. No wonder the Apostle Paul later declared, “In everything give thanks.” (1 Thessalonians 5:18)
Over my nine and a half decades of life, I have concluded that counting our blessings is far better than recounting our problems. No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a fast-acting and long-lasting spiritual prescription.
Does gratitude spare us from sorrow, sadness, grief and pain? No, but it does soothe our feelings. It provides us with a greater perspective on the very purpose and joy of life.
Nearly 16 years ago, my wife Dantzel and I were sitting on the sofa holding hands while we watched television. Suddenly, she collapsed. Despite being well trained to treat the very thing that ended her life, I could not save my own wife.
Dantzel and I were blessed with nine daughters and one son. Tragically, I have lost two of those daughters to cancer. No parent is prepared to lose a child.
And yet, despite these and other difficult experiences, I am incredibly grateful, eternally, for so very many things.
I am grateful to God for the nearly 60 years Dantzel and I shared together, for a lifetime of love and joy and cherished memories. And I thank Him for my wife Wendy, whom I met after Dantzel’s passing. Wendy now fills my life with joy.
President Russell M. Nelson of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and his wife, Sister Wendy Nelson, wave to attendees during a devotional in Phnom Penh, Cambodia, on Nov. 19, 2019. Credit: Jeffrey D. Allred, Deseret NewsI am grateful to God for the years I had with my two departed daughters. This father’s heart melts when I see attributes of those girls in the precious faces of their children and grandchildren.
We can all give thanks for the beauties of the earth and the majesty of the heavens that give us an inkling of the vastness of eternity.
We can give thanks for the gift of life, for our amazing bodies and minds, that allow us to grow and learn.
We can give thanks for art, literature and music that nurture our souls.
We can give thanks for the opportunity to repent, start over, make amends and build character.
We can give thanks for our families, friends and loved ones.
We can give thanks for the opportunity to help, cherish and serve one another, which makes life so much more meaningful.
We can even give thanks for our trials; from which we learn the things we would not know otherwise.
Most of all, we can give thanks unto God, the Father of our spirits, which makes us all brothers and sisters — one great global family.
No matter our situation, showing gratitude for our privileges is a fast-acting and long-lasting spiritual prescription.
As a doctor, I know the value of good therapy. So, dear friends, may I prescribe two activities to help us experience the healing power of gratitude.
First, I invite you — just for the next seven days — to turn social media into your own personal gratitude journal. Post every day about what you are grateful for, who you are grateful for and why you are grateful.
At the end of seven days, see if you feel happier and more at peace. Use the hashtag #GiveThanks. Working together, we can flood social media with a wave of gratitude that reaches the four corners of the earth. Perhaps this will fulfill, in part, the promise God gave to Father Abraham, that through his descendants, “all families of the earth [shall] be blessed.” (Genesis 12:3)
Second, let us unite in thanking God through daily prayer. Jesus Christ taught His disciples to pray by first expressing gratitude to God, and then petitioning Him for the things we need. Prayer brings forth miracles.
In that spirit, I would now like to offer a prayer for the world and everyone in it. As I pray, I hope you will feel inspired to do the same, pouring out your heart in gratitude for the countless blessings God has given you, and petitioning Him to heal our hearts, our families, our societies and the world at large.
Prayer of gratitude
Our Father in Heaven, as fellow passengers on Thy planet Earth, we humbly pray unto Thee. We thank Thee for life and all that sustains life. We thank Thee for the beauties of the earth, for order in the universe, the planets, stars, and all things of eternal significance. We thank Thee for Thy laws that protect and guide us. We thank Thee for Thy mercy and loving watch care. We thank Thee for our families and loved ones, who fill our lives with joy.
We are grateful for all who are striving to combat the COVID pandemic. Please bless them with protection and inspiration. Wilt Thou help us end this virus that has plagued so many of Thy children.
We thank Thee for the leaders of nations and others who strive to lift us. We pray for relief from political strife. Wilt Thou bless us with a healing spirit that unites us despite our differences.
Wilt Thou also help us repent from selfishness, unkindness, pride and prejudice of any kind, so that we can better serve and love one another as brothers and sisters, and as Thy grateful children. We love Thee, our dear Father, and pray for Thy blessings upon us, in the name of Thy Beloved son, Jesus Christ, amen.
Here is the road to our home. We’ve had more downpour rains the last few weeks, and with every storm, more of our road washes away. We were so happy this week to see another dumpload of “road base” has appeared. These loads of rubble are dumped in the middle of the worst places in our road where the gullies and ravines have become deep and almost impassable.
Here is what we drove by today as we left home. After a few days, big trucks and cars will gingerly drive over these piles, helping to spread them out and fill in the washed out places in our road, and perhaps our traveling here will be better.
These dumps look like they come from construction sites. This one included the broken pail used to gather the rubble.
This afternoon we walked up the road and these two cars had come to an impasse. Neither would back up or back down, letting the other go by.
It was actually quite interesting to watch. In time more cars came from below and the car coming down from above gave way, backed up, and let them pass.
We love our African life and we love watching the ways people sort out their problems and find solutions.
This pile was dumped a couple of weeks ago and it’s breaking up into this pothole very nicely.
We held our monthly leadership meeting today in the East Mission with the Bendixsens. It’s always a delight to be with our Sister Training Leaders and our Zone Leaders.
Today we had discussions about our key indicators and goals, preparing for area book planner (phone technology), missionary support funds, and a few other things. These are always interesting meetings.
At the end of the day, Pres Bendixsen told them we’d be returning to Mali the first week in December and we got to share a few thoughts with them. I’m grateful for the French words that come out of my mouth now.
We often have trouble getting into the stake center. Today the gates were locked again and the member with the key couldn’t find the key. We decided to move these 2 district meetings to our apartment and the AP’s apartment down the road a bit.
Here come the missionaries on the way to our place!
The Riviera District met at our apartment and the Cocody District met at the other apartment. After transfers, we have several new missionaries in these districts and we are excited to get to know them better.
We had a great meeting, discussing our investigators (friends of the church) and how to share the incredible message we have of truths restored in the Book of Mormon. What a gift!
Every day I see sewing machinists like this fellow, walking along the roads with their sewing machines on their shoulders. In their free hand, there will be a pair of scissors, snipping loudly, so you can hear them coming. If you have mending, you call to them and they come to your door or to your home to do the job. Today this mender was outside our neighbor’s door next to their pile of things to be fixed.
Within minutes, he’d installed a zipper in this blue skirt. His machine is hand-powered (hand crank) and well-used. It was fun to watch him work.
Here’s a closer look at his machine and his few notions.
This evening we picked up Pres and Sis Lewis at the airport. They are home again! We’re grateful for that. We’ve had a wonderful 5 weeks looking after things here while they’ve been away. They will hit the ground running with a week full of zone conferences!
Buried in those suitcases was a frozen Thanksgiving turkey!!
They also brought a few treats to us from our kids. Oh what fun!! We are so grateful.
Today was our last office staff meeting with these excellent Elders. We’ve lost 2 since last week–one was transferred and one returned home. We are preparing for the Lewises return to Abidjan tonight!